Saturday, August 20, 2011

RUSSELL ARMSTRONG'S NEPHEW SAYS 'HOUSEWIVES' SHOULD GO ON -- WHILE BRAVO PUSHES BACK SECOND SEASON PREMIERE


The second season of Bravo's reality TV show "Real Housewives of Beverly Hills" should continue as planned, with footage of Russell Armstrong edited out, his nephew said today on "Good Morning America."

"I think, in my opinion, Russell should be edited out, in respect to Taylor and the family," Austin Kelsoe said on "GMA" this morning. "In my personal opinion, Bravo should take the high road and do what they think is the right thing to do." 

'Real Housewives': Armstrong's Nephew on Suicide Watch Video
 
The Sept. 5 premiere is expected to be delayed following Armstrong's death, a source told The Hollywood Reporter. 

The Los Angeles County Coroner confirmed Wednesday that the death of Armstrong, 47, the estranged husband of "Real Housewives of Beverly Hills" cast member Taylor Armstrong, was a suicide. He was found hanging by an electrical cord at a Los Angeles-area home Monday night.

Andy Cohen, host of "Watch What Happens Live" and executive VP of original programming and development at Bravo, wrote on his blog Wednesday that, "We're all still ... looking at how to proceed with the series, which has finished primary production and was set to premiere on Labor Day. We'll let you know what we decide when we do."

Armstrong's suicide has divided his own family and friends over the role the reality show played in his death. Armstrong appeared frequently on the show with his then-wife, Taylor.

Armstrong, portrayed as controlling and unlikable in season one of the show, watched his marriage to Taylor collapse during filming of the show's second season. Taylor filed for divorce in July and accused her estranged husband of physical and verbal abuse in divorce papers.

Family Still 'In Shock,' Divided

Kelsoe, the 18-year-old son of Russell Armstrong's sister, Laurie Kelsoe, said he saw the stress the show placed on his uncle, but doesn't blame the show for his death.

"I think there were other factors of their marriage that could have led to the ruin of his life," he said on "GMA." "I guess the show could have been one of the factors, but I don't think it was solely based on the show."

Armstrong's stepmother, however, believes the show pushed her stepson over the edge.

"I know this show ruined his life," Gladys Armstrong told "GMA." "Deep in my heart I know that. Russell was not what he was made out to be."

She also blamed Taylor Armstrong for adding to the extreme pressure and stress she believes Russell was under.

"I think that Taylor was a little bit responsible," she said. "He was just pushed to the limit and trying to keep up with the Jones's."

In an interview with People magazine that took place a few weeks before his death, Armstrong admitted that "Real Housewives" caused some angst in his actual reality. "It got really overwhelming," he told the magazine. "When you get a TV show involved, and all the pressure — it just takes it to a whole new level. ... We were pushed to extremes."

Taylor and Russell were, at the time of his death, sharing custody of their 5-year-old daughter, Kennedy, who, Armstrong's business partner confirmed to "GMA," is not aware of her father's death.

"She doesn't know yet, and we want to keep it that way for a while," said Francisco Martin, one of the people who discovered Armstrong's body Monday night.

Martin also defended Taylor Armstrong and told "GMA" he believes her actions and lifestyle are not responsible for her estranged husband's suicide.

"There are so many variables that we have absolutely no idea," Martin said of what could have driven his business partner to suicide. "I don't know what was going on in his mind at that point."

Armstrong Under Stress, In Debt Before Suicide
Armstrong, an investment banker and venture capitalist, was also more than $1.5 million in debt at the time of his death, and spending wildly, his lawyer told ABCNews.com.

"He didn't have any extra assets," Ronald Richards said about his client. "He was living month to month to support his lifestyle for Taylor."

At the time of his death, Armstrong was being sued by MyMedicalRecords.com for misusing funds and breach of contract. But Richards said it was the pressure to one up the fellow "Real Housewives" personalities that really strained his finances.

"These couples join these shows, and then they keep trying to outdo each other and they end up spending all their money trying to sustain a lifestyle that's unrealistic and wasn't there prior to the show," he said. 

"The weekly social events, the dinners and all the BS, trying to pretend you have unlimited resources in Beverly Hills is tough. When every night is a potential sound bite or posting on a website, you end up getting addicted to it, you go out all the time."

Kelsoe, who described his family as "still in shock" over Armstrong's death, said he could see the stress the show placed on his uncle.

"He told me he was going to be on it, and he seemed really ecstatic about it, at that point he was happy," Kelsoe said of his initial conversations with Armstrong before taping for the show's second season began. "When I visited him a couple of weeks later, he was telling me how stressed he was from the show and stuff like that."

RadarOnline.com reports that other members of Armstrong's family are reportedly considering filing a lawsuit against Bravo for contributing to the emotional state that led to his suicide.

"Bravo is at fault and somebody needs to pay," Russell's stepbrother Wade Jackson told the outlet in an interview. "Russell's whole family was very close and they're considering suing Bravo."

Bravo has not commented on allegations that the show played a role in the suicide. 

Real Housewives of Beverly Hills Husband Russell Armstrong To Have Two Separate Funeral Services -- Closed Casket Due To Inuries Sustained

The Los Angeles coroner confirmed that the body of the Real Housewives of Beverly Hills husband wasn't found until more than 24 hours after he took his own life.
 


"Based on what I read I would assume that he had been dead for more than 24 hours," said Los Angeles Chief Coroner Investigator Harvey Craig.

A routine investigation into Armstrong's death is still under way, but the initial autopsy made clear the recently estranged husband of Real Housewives of Beverly Hills star Taylor Armstrong killed himself and was battling a severe depression which came on the heels of Taylor filing for divorce more than a month ago.

The 47-year-old father of three had been found on Monday at 8:16 p.m. after he failed to show for an afternoon meeting with his ex earlier that afternoon. Taylor and friends went on a frantic search for him, which ended tragically, with them finding Armstrong hanging from a wooden beam in a bedroom in his Mullholland Drive home.

In a statement issued earlier this week, Taylor Armstrong requested privacy so that she could console her five-year old daughter with Russell  -- Kennedy -- who is occasionally seen on the Bravo series.

MORE: Could Russell's family successfully sue Bravo?


Taylor had filed for divorce from Armstrong after six years of marriage, citing physical and verbal abuse.

In addition to his marriage woes, Armstrong had a long history of major financial and legal troubles.


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Russell's longtime attorney, Ronald Richards, reported this week that after recently speaking to Armstrong, he "seemed fine...just dealing with the normal problems affiliated with the divorce."

But, Richards added, Armstrong "was always depressed."
"He was always disappointed about the divorce and financial issues."

As for his depression, someone very close to another Housewives fixture is weighing in. Dr. Estella Sneider, who is a counselor and mother-in-law to Beverly Hills Housewife Kyle Richards, says dealing with suicidal patients is tricky.

"When I see general patients who have been suicidal, I ask what their plans are, why did they choose that. Explain the plans such as who will find them and what do they think people will think?"  "It's amazing when people start exploring, they get to the message and the real pain that they're feeling. They let it go. Unfortunately, I wish more people would reach out and more professionals are there."

Sneider also said she has sent her condolences to Taylor and wanted to give her advice on talking to her young daughter about her father's suicide.

MORE: Condolences pour in 

Taylor is currently planning Russell's funeral, which reportedly will have a closed casket due to the bodily injuries Armstrong caused himself when he died.

Two Separate Memorial Services for Russell Armstrong Agreed Upon

The tension between estranged wife Taylor Armstrong and Russell's family caused a conflict in planning Armstrong's funeral, confirmation now is  that the two sides have come up with an agreement on how to grieve the loss of their loved one—holding two separate services.

MORE: Timeline of a Tragedy: Real Housewives' Russell Armstrong Was "Always Depressed"

The plans include for Russell's remains to be cremated.

His attorney, Ronald Richards, tells E! News the first service will be held in California, and then Russell's remains will be sent to Texas for a second service.

Richards also said that Taylor's attorney only just informed one of Russell's family members of the funeral arrangements, but Taylor has yet to contact Russell's parents or sister.

"They have now, after the family went public through my office, provided funeral information to a relative, at 4:30 p.m., but have still yet called his mother, father, or sister," he tells us.

The tension between estranged wife Taylor Armstrong and Russell's family caused a conflict in planning Armstrong's funeral, but now E! News can confirm that the two sides have come up with an agreement on how to grieve the loss of their loved one—holding two separate services.


The plans include for Russell's remains to be cremated.

His attorney, Ronald Richards, tells E! News the first service will be held in California, and then Russell's remains will be sent to Texas for a second service.

Richards also said that Taylor's attorney only just informed one of Russell's family members of the funeral arrangements, but Taylor has yet to contact Russell's parents or sister.

"They have now, after the family went public through my office, provided funeral information to a relative, at 4:30 p.m., but have still yet called his mother, father, or sister," he tells us.

This came right after Richards' initial comment to us about their funeral plans.

"They [Taylor and her attorney] are playing fast and loose. They have kept the funeral location, service, and time secret from his mother, father, and sister. His sister and father have told me that Taylor has not called them one time," Richards had said, "The dispute is anyone coming to participate in the funeral in Los Angeles, not sending his remains to Texas."


This came right after Richards' initial comment to us about their funeral plans.

"They [Taylor and her attorney] are playing fast and loose. They have kept the funeral location, service, and time secret from his mother, father, and sister.  His sister and father have told me that Taylor has not called them one time," Richards had said, "The dispute is anyone coming to participate in the funeral in Los Angeles, not sending his remains to Texas."

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As of Saturday morning, details for memorial services had been worked out between the families. Taylor Armstrong reportedly told a family member that Russell's mother could have the majority of Russell's remains, and Taylor would keep the remainder in her possession. This report clearly stating that Armstrong's remains would be cremated.

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